Angel
Tour and Trekking Operatot is not only specialized in adventurous
activities like trekking, mountaineering, expedition and sightseeing,
the agency also takes its pride in arranging Nepali Marriage
Ceremony for the foreign couples. “Nepali Marriage Carnival”
is a special package that we have set specially for the foreign
couples. In this carnival, the couples can tie their nuts
in Nepali system. Nepali marriage system is unique and rich
in itself. Celebrating this carnival is to taste Nepali culture,
especially matrimonial system. Thus, participate in this carnival
and feel the difference forever!!
How to Participate?
Candidates wishing to participate in the carnival must come
with spouse. For booking, candidates are requested to contact
us. Price and detail information of the program will be provided
on request.
How is marriage arranged in Nepal?
All groups in Nepal follow some form of clan, lineage, or
local descent group exogamy, at least through the fifth generation.
Hypergamy is not commonly practiced except among some Rajputs
in the Terai and a few interethnic marriages where trade-offs
are made between ritual status and class. For most Tibetan-and
Tibeto-Burman-speaking groups a ritual and often substantial
payment is made by the groom to the bride's family. Cross-cousin
marriage is not practiced among many groups such as the Sherpa
and Hindu caste groups. However, the Thakuri permit and prefer
cross-cousin matrilateral marriage. Other groups such as the
Tamang and Nyinba prefer bilateral cross-cousin marriage.
In general, most marriages are made between couples of the
same generation. However, the average age of marriage partners
is increasing as education becomes more important and available.
Monogamy is the most common form of marriage in Nepal, although
a few Individuals in most groups also practice polygyny. A
number of Tibetan-speaking people, such as the Nyinba, Sherpa,
and Baragaonli, practice variant forms of fraternal polyandry.
Throughout Nepal most marriages are arranged by the Parents
of the couple, though with varying degrees of involvement
and control. Among high-caste Hindus, marriages have typically
been arranged wholly through the decisions of the couples'
families. Young men and women of Tibeto-Burman-speaking groups
in the middle hills, on the other hand, have more occasion
to interact with one another and may induce their parents
merely to arrange marriage ceremonies for them. An unusual,
and perhaps more legendary than actual, practice among Tibeto-Burman-speaking
groups is wife capture. In such a case, following the abduction
of a woman, both she and her family need to agree to a marital
arrangement or the relationship is dissolved. Eloping is mainly
practiced among more impoverished families. After marriage,
couples typically live with the husband's extended family
for a number of years. However, among the Sherpa marriage
takes place in stages, perhaps for years. Thus a husband and
wife may continue to live with their respective natal families
for years and only visit each other. Once the wife's dowry
is arranged and/or they have children, they move in together.
In groups throughout Nepal young wives look forward to visiting
their natal families during their first few years of marriage.
It is not uncommon for women to leave their husbands and return
to their natal family or for men to leave their wives and
form a union with a new wife. If bride-price has been paid
it may have to be returned in part to the husband. Women are
allowed to claim rights to their husband's property if they
have been abandoned, especially if they have children. Second
marriages are not condoned for high-caste Hindu women, and
they result in a reduction in social and ritual status if
they occur. Men also gain a bad reputation if they divorce
their wives, but they do not lose ritual status if they remarry.
For other groups Divorce involves much less stigma for women.
Among the Magar, for instance, women who leave their husbands
and remarry lose a few ritual privileges, but this is nothing
compared to what happens to high-caste women.
Itinerary :
Day 01:Arrival in Kathmandu (1320m)
Arrival at Tribhuvan International Airport (TIA) in Kathmandu.
Upon arrival at the airport, our representatives will receive
you offering garlands and transfer to hotel.
Day 02: Kathmandu (1320m.) – Nagarkot (about 2,200)
After having breakfast in the hotel, we go for sightseeing
around Kathmandu valley. We would visit Pashupatinath temple,
Swayambhunath, Baudha, Krishna temple, Kathmandu Durbar Square
and in the afternoon, we go to Nagarkot via. Bhaktapur. Nagarkot,
located about 14 km north east from Bhaktapur at the height
of 2,200m. is best known for sunrise and sunset view and mountain
views. Upon arrival in resort, we will be greeted with welcome
drinks and check in to the room. We would view sunset and
go for dinner.
Day 03: Nagarkot (about 2,200) – Dhulikhel (1437m)
When the breakfast is served, we drive to Dhulikhel (1437m)
from Nagarkot. Lunch will be served at Dhulikhel. It is the
preparation day of marriage. Two houses (one for bride and
another for bridegroom) will be arranged in a rural setting.
In the afternoon, we go for short trek around Dhulikhel valley.
Bride and bridegroom will be transferred to their respective
houses. Immerse with their respective family members. Dinner
will be served with the family members. Cultural program will
be performed in the evening.
Day 04: Dhulikhel (1437m)
Full day marriage ceremony. Bride will be transferred to the
house of bridegroom with the marriage procession. Both the
bride and bridegroom will be well dressed in Nepali attire.
The priest will perform pooja .When the pooja is accomplished,
bridegroom will take bride to his house. He will be supported
by the procession. Cultural program will be performed in the
evening.
Day 05: Dhulikhel (1437m) – Kathmandu
Having lunch in the hotel, we would drive back to Kathmandu.
In the evening, we would go for shopping. Farewell dinner
will be served in the evening. Overnight in the hotel.
Day 06: Back home destination.
Note: We would transfer to the airport for
returning home. If time permits, we may join the Nepal Honeymoon
Package (6 Days). contact us
With
Best Regards, Angel Tours and Trekking Operator - Nepal, Tibet, India
http://www.angelnepal.com
Ph: 977-1-4700040, 977-1-9851049206 info@angelnepal.com
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